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goin thru same thing bro, sometimes, stuff just happens and u can;t really control what happens. Right now you're going through the 5 steps of grieving which is similar to someone passing away. Its normal to be depressed and tear up a bit but thats what makes u human. I can say, you're depressed and can't let go because u dont have a certain answer from her even though she doesnt want to be with u, u just think maybe theres some kind of hope, maybe the situation will change if i say this or that.
My advice, just cry it all out, ur not a "pussy" or "girl" for doing that. Even the worlds toughest man cries, hell one of my close friend is the toughest person i know in this world and he cries. It helps. it does suck when u think of them constantly 24/7 no matter what u're doing but remember this, u got over your exes before. This is the same thing, youre just in this because all the chemicals in your brain built the emotions. Remember back to the day where u didnt know her and could care less.
concentrate on work, working out, games and u will start to feel better. Dont even contact her no matter how hard and tempting it is. Its been 2 months for me and im getting better but yea, im still going through the same shit as you. The girls dont care about us and they play mind games to confuse us. Do the same because they arnt worth it. Theres a nice girl out there for u and u will be the nice guy out there for that girl thats been waiting. U guys just havnt met yet. Take this as a lesson and say fuck it. Its hard, but once u get past that phase, its gonna be smooth sailing.
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