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Normally I don't respond to this type of crap but hey wth I'll bite. First off you need to calm down, and get rid of the mindset that you absolutely must get laid. You're only 22, not everyone is getting ass 24/7/365. If they were, escorts/hookers, POF all that crap wouldn't exist, so once again calm down.
You're buddies who are claiming they banged # of girls last weekend, the vast of majority of them are lying. That's what guys do, sure one of them is maybe some super stud pornstar and beds anything he looks at, but the rest of them are full of shit. So again calm down.
What kind of women are you trying to attract? Are you trying to simply hook up with the prototypical "hot chick" in your classes,at the bar, etc? Guess what, so is every other single meatball who is just as desperate as you. You don't think that shit gets tiring for her too? Sure a few may love it, but the majority of them just want to get left the fuck alone.
What I think you need to do is take a step back and actually look at who you are trying to hook up with, instead of what you are doing yourself to attract them. Let's be honest, chances are if you are willing to pay for escorts and get to choose from a "catalogue" than chances are you are going to completely close minded in who you talk to in the real world. You may not even realize it but chances are your not even noticing the girls who are interested in you, because you are completely fixated on another who actually have no interest in you at all. Have a look around, chances are someones in interested in you and you don't even realize it.
Lastly, you claim women arent attracted to fitness, finance, and cars. Not directly, but you know what women are attracted to? Confidence. Not arrogance, but confidence. Don't act like a douche, the whole being "alpha" thing is a bunch of fucking horseshit. Who wants to attract that kind of woman anyways. Know what actually is attractive to women? Having a fucking plan is attractive. Take care of yourself physically, without being a meathead douche- thats attractive. Know where you want to be in 1 yr, 5 yrs, 10 yrs? thats attractive. Know value, whether its cars, real estate, anything, without wasting money on stupid shit. thats attractive. The next time you go into school, work, wherever strike up a conversation with someone who you have no interest in sleeping with, because the more people you know and can talk to, the wider your base of friends, contacts, acquaintances will be. Start talking to people without trying to get in their pants every single time, and you'd be amazed that people will actually want to spend time with you. Sex just comes later.
If you can't do that or at least try, stick with the fucking hookers.
Oh and chemical castration, don't be so fucking melodramatic.
k im done, god that was preachy
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