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people should feel honoured to be invited to a wedding....not expect to be invited.
weddings are expensive! you should never expect someone to spend money on you...its like expecting someone to buy you a birthday gift! for all you know, they are flying dozens of family members in from overseas...or paying for the wedding themselves. If someone who you are "kinda" friends with doesn't invited you...who cares!?
when you plan your own wedding...you can feed and host everyone you have ever worked with, said hi to, lived next to, went to school with, etc. but don't expect everyone else to do the same.
holding a grudge b/c you were not invited to a wedding just shows that you weren't really a friend to begin with.
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