[jameswift]

This is from the guy's perspective, me. It's long and of all my dating I can't figure this out.

THE STORY

I meet this woman through work.

I've had gf's before and lived with gf's before so experience on my end is not really an issue. The girl on the other hand has only had one 7 year relationship that ended badly and took her 3 years to get over. She says she's now at a point where shes over it and looking to settle down.

Here is the issue.

The first few dates with her things got serious VERY fast. We're both super highly educated and work in the same field so the conversation ended up going down work conversation and then the conversation got very heavy very fast. Way too deep for the first few dates.

So date #4 I just dropped her off at her car, gave her a hug and then was like whatever. Before she got out of the car I asked her if she even wants to try and make something work. She's like yes I'm willing to try. Ummmmm....... okay.... We had already made plans to hang out on the weekend so I text her to say "You still want to hang out on Saturday?"

She's like yeah sure I'll text you day of and we'll hang out.

I have to admit, I am very much into this woman as I'm looking to settle down as well. I'm not sure how to play this or if I even CAN play it after the malfunction in the beginning. Should I drop it?