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Old 05-07-2012, 12:00 PM   #7
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It sounds like you're just not listening to her.. she says she needs time. In the last 10 years, there has just been one guy for her, and i'm sure it was just a little devastating breaking up at 29 after 7 years..

You think you're scared of getting hurt, I bet shes more scared. You already said shes not the type to lead you on, so it sounds like she's just being extra cautious. The last thing she'd want to do is commit to another guy who says he loves her for 2+ years, then break up again. Take another year to heal, now where is she at? 35 starting from scratch?

IMO, you should either stick it out with her taking it slow, or just leave.
You need to show her that you actually do want to marry her and are willing to respect her and take it slow. And if you can't wait that long, then you're probably not right for her anyways.

Yes, there is a possibility of getting hurt.. but the possibility is mutual to say the least.
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