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Originally Posted by dachinesedude
but then again she was 20, so take it for what it is, dunno if you can apply it to a 30 year old
point is, stay away from wishy washy girls
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No, you can't. Those 10 years are big years.
I don't know how to explain my thoughts. It's like the same problem but opposite. A 20 year old doesn't know what she wants, and I think this girl knows what she wants too much.
OP, after reading your posts, I'm left with maybe she's not that into you.
I think she told you:
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"Do you think we have too much in common?" WTF? I was so caught off guard I didn't even know what to say. I said we have things in common but we are also very different people as well.
Anyway she said it's date #4 and she likes me and wants to try but she's not getting HIT with this chemistry."
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She got burned by a 'bad boy', took 3 years off to heal and is now going out and saying "I'm looking for everything the ex was not". She's trying on pants man.
You are a confident, successful, educated guy. She WANTS you to be those pants. On paper, you are THE pants for her.
But in her heart, she wants a taste of pleather, and you are khaki. Her asking "do we have too much in common? is code for "how does my ass look in these things?"
I think the date where you didn't try so hard was more successful because that decision wasn't as in your face. You weren't all, "so we going or not?" you were just you.
And dude, if she can't muster up some passion for a good kiss, then man, she is just not that into you. Even a bad kiss should do something.