REVscene Automotive Forum - View Single Post - The most messed up dating sitaution I've ever seen

F30 · 05-07-2012, 05:31 PM

Maybe you are actually not confident enough?
You told her what you want but you aren't taking charge with enthusiasm. You are bothered by having to ask her on dates. She never said "no" to you, so she is obviously giving you a chance. Take it and roll with it. Don't think what to do on dates, just let it play out. If you feel like kissin her, then do it. Have the confidence that you being you is enough to make this work because if it is not enough you will have to face this problem later. Neither you nor she will change.

This is not a game and strategy may help you get laid but not in the long run to settle down. Just do what you FEEL is right on the next date and then be honest with yourself right after.

Just my thoughts, take it or leave it. Goo luck either way.

PS. Your title of this thread says it's most messed up dating situation you've ever seen. It's not even that messed up, don't let it get to you.

05-07-2012, 05:31 PM	#13
F30 Proud to be called a RS Regular! Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Coquitlam Posts: 284 Thanked 137 Times in 46 Posts Failed 57 Times in 6 Posts	Maybe you are actually not confident enough? You told her what you want but you aren't taking charge with enthusiasm. You are bothered by having to ask her on dates. She never said "no" to you, so she is obviously giving you a chance. Take it and roll with it. Don't think what to do on dates, just let it play out. If you feel like kissin her, then do it. Have the confidence that you being you is enough to make this work because if it is not enough you will have to face this problem later. Neither you nor she will change. This is not a game and strategy may help you get laid but not in the long run to settle down. Just do what you FEEL is right on the next date and then be honest with yourself right after. Just my thoughts, take it or leave it. Goo luck either way. PS. Your title of this thread says it's most messed up dating situation you've ever seen. It's not even that messed up, don't let it get to you. Last edited by F30; 05-07-2012 at 05:37 PM.