[Presto]

Originally Posted by haymura

It is hard to give a more accurate advice due to an incomplete story. What exactly happened? from what ive gathered it seems like she needed her space. If that is the case maybe she felt choked in the relationship. Were you clingy?
Once again, hard to give advice on an incomplete story.

There's a nice progression to this situation, if you go through OP's old posts:

March 28, 2012:

Originally Posted by doritos

Hello all, I am in a situation. Recently broke up with my gf a few weeks ago but i still sleep over. There is no sex involved, no kissing, no hugging. I believe we are back to normal but how do i get past that phase? it seems as though she is not interested anymore but I am deeply in love I don't mind. The gf is acting normal again, pinches me touches my face and hands or applies lotions or whatever it may be. If i go in to hug her or kiss she will say NO. We still massage each other, I can feel goosebumps on her when I give her massages but I am in a position that I am afraid to go further not like before..If she is letting me touch her and massage her, whats that mean?.

There are no third parties between us. Just need to know what is going through a woman's head at this point. She was dealing with her issues before and telling me, with a bf around she is feeling enclosed and cannot be independent. That was the reason we broke it off. I am willing to try anything. I desperately need help! thanks

Clarification:

Originally Posted by doritos

sorry misinformed, i never broke up with he, SHE did. And its not fair for me? I am the one getting mixed signals from her...

And then attempt to get some post-breakup nookie:

Originally Posted by doritos

what is the nicest way to ask ur ex for sex!?
who has experienced this and how or what did you say?

OP is a Stage 5 Clinger.