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So just got back from Vegas with her and 3 other friends (whom 2 just became a couple before the trip).
She was more girlfriendly since we had another couple in the group. The trip was good.
Read this post after I came back, which I had written before hands. It got my thinking when I was reading it, I believe the way I worded some things was not too accurate.
@ Spoon: we hanged with friends often, before and after we started dating. But it was only recent months that I felt this way or realize this feeling. How she feels uncomfortable to kiss in front of our friends.
I guess it have to do with how she has less feelings for me now as compared to the beginning whereas, I have finally opened myself up to her. Really sucks here.
Then again, she was always against public PDA.
So through this trip, she said she would not marry me for who I am (right now) as I am "irresponsible childish etc" and is dating me because I am sweet and considerate.
I know guys. I know.
But she is a really good person. Down to earth. I can talk to hear about my life experiences and she would understand. She is not shallow. She doesn't club nor ask me to buy her anything. No $5000 hangbags or whatever
[Another thing is she hates cooking though.. I can't imagine how she would be a good wife if she isn't willing to help out in the kitchen. (I can cook)]