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awesome read, thanks for all the info. She did want to be totally alone and I understand that but sometimes people with an illness do not actually know what they want so you have to try your best to help them. That is what I've been doing for the past few months with her, this is not for my own benefit. I've been through too much with her and let me tell you, not being intimate for months is difficult but it is not something that is needed right now. What needs to be done is for her health to be better and for her to sometimes accept help which she is starting to understand. We have set a few boundaries and compromising. I've accepted to contact her only a limited amount of times per week or let her choose to do that on her own when she feels like it. The isolation is due to her depression which I know you guys who have been through it or know a friend thats been through it. We are trying again and hopefully it turns out great. If it does not, its okay because she will be happy at the end knowing what she actually wants and I can move on if it happens again.
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