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Originally Posted by ForbiddenX
Haha I wish I could have sex 1-2 times every few months... I've been in a sex-less relationship for 3.5 years now because of different religious views. No sex before marriage. I don't believe in it but the gf does.
I love her a lot though and there are a lot of other things that make the relationship great. It just really really sucks that there is no sex in the relationship at all. I think that it's really important and it's what makes it a intimate romantic one instead of just a friendship. Our views on this have been on the opposite ends of the spectrum and we were always fighting about it all the time. I was always the one who brought it up so I just stopped bringing it up and there has been no more fighting. I just keep it to myself now and just try to deal with it.
It's all I ever think about now too and it's always in the back of my mind. Probably not mentally healthy but what can I do. That, stress from work, etc can get pretty taxing on my mind.
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Religious views is a tough one. So much temptation! Like if you date at a young age and don't get married till later on, your nuts are going to be dry LOL. But on a serious note, I know how you feel. I was in a similar situation, but I only dated the girl for 15 months.