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Originally Posted by CL typeS
The truth, not alot of people understand that. They dont have sex often and their mind wanders everywhere, maybe theyre cheating or w/e.
Its a big problem, one of my frds been with this girl for 4 yrs and they havent done it in like almost 10 months. He tells me she says she doesnt like it but on the other hand he really needs the physical intimacy.
edit:^^ but if she has religious views, its best to stay clear and respect her values and wishes. I dont think it would be wise to try and slip it in, she might just break up with you cuz she'll think you dont respect her values
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This is a case of exactly what I'm saying. They don't match.
One of the things I flat out ask guys when I date is 'how often do you need to get laid' cause honestly - I work full time, I have a kid, I don't have a lot of free time to be with a SO to begin with and then on top of that I'm friggen tired some times. So if someone needs to be screwed silly 5 times a week - that's not going to work and I would rather just end that before it begins than deal with the fall out.
I think girls should be more honest about their sex drives. Guys also have to be more honest about their needs. These are conversations that should happen early in relationships not after a 10 month drought.