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I grew up in a christian family and went to church for about 16 years, got bored of God's words and left. I agree somewhat with all the teachings and bullshit
My philosophy is the first time doesn't matter before marriage or after, as long as your first was the person you love the most. Not being a sissy or something, but that's my philosophy even though out there in the world a lot of people treat sex as a pleasure tool even as the first time. I'd rather not use sex as a tool to get pleasure but instead something more meaningful towards someone I love. However, hey, that might change after a couple years but I think this is a good way to keep myself disciplined.
As for sex in a relationship, I think it's not important but a good way to bond. I think there is a better connection between each couple if you have sex, but sometimes doesn't even have to be sex, 3rd base or some intimacy is a good way as well. If there is no physical initmacy I feel it gets kinda stale after a while...? I'm only guessing. Thats just imo
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