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Originally Posted by xmisstrinh
lets put it like... girl is not satisfied because guy can't hold it in and finishes too soon, and the girl still wants to do it, therefore unsatisfied.
Stamina as in duration of sex.
Overall incompatibility is girl has high sex drive, wants it all the time, guy doesn't seem interested in sex, sometimes rejects the girl.
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well, i was with a guy who was like that....it sucks. is the guy aware that this is a problem? or, does he just think thats how its suppose to be?
does this happen all the time? like, even without foreplay he is a fast shooter? does he try to slow down at all?
there are a few suggestions I have:
1. Talk to him about it. You don't have to call him out and be like, "you shoot to fast, im not satisfied, you suck at fucking", etc.
2. SLOW IT DOWN. Start with a little foreplay...maybe some 69 so you both are working at something (some time I find it weird just to lay there and get head).
3. Take breaks...1/2 way through, if he is going to shoot, have him pull out and play with you a bit. You can give him a slow hand-job while he is trying to get you off with his fingers or mouth.
4. Use toys. Lets face it...there are times when we want sex to last a while and times when we want a quicky. It sounds like you have quickies, by default, so if it is a case where you a left unsatisfied while he is already done....try using a vibrator while he is fucking you. If it is a good vib, it will only take seconds for you to orgasm....then, it really doesn't matter how long he takes. If you do not want to use a vib, try using your fingers....it takes longer, but it may work.
5. Prep yourself. Get yourself 1/2 way there before you fuck and let him do the rest.
You could combine all the above or only one of the above. You don't have to call him right out and tell him he sucks....maybe just suggest "spicing it up" a bit? Also, some chick can orgasm with sex only. There is a reason the clitoris is on the outside and not the inside the vagina.
It is very rare that you meet someone....fall in love...and fuck like pros. Some times it takes some work/practice and it would be a shame to throw the towel in without trying a few things first.