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Here is the thing....
Yes, girls can (on occasion) express some little tidbits of unhappiness or annoyances to their friends. We don't (at least in my experience) have huge bitch session on how our bf/husbands/etc. suck and we hate them.
GOOD friends will respond with, "oh that kind of sucks, have you tried talking to him about it?" or "I'm sorry to hear that, but he is a nice guy...maybe try not to stress about it", or give advice, etc...
You never want to be that friend who says, "What a fucking asshole" or "See! I knew that guy was a bag of shit" b/c sometimes we say things when we are frustrated, but really don't mean it. So once an issue blows over, you will always know that your friend called you bf an "asshole" or "bag of shit". Not cool.
If you fear that your gf is hanging out with other gfs and talking shit about you....you ain't picking the right girl or you are doing something to warrant being talked about.
Girls need to vent to their friends just as much as guys need to vent to their friends....its not always mean and cruel....or at least, it should be.
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