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Hey I'll give my experience.
So my girl moved in from not being together for 5 months, I was with her just under a year before that, been friends for maybe 4.. Anyways.
She made me food, cleaned up ocassionally, but unfortunately did not meet my standards as someone who I would want to spend the rest of my life (or share my house) with.
To be honest I think moving in is a great idea, if you can't do it, then why are you holding onto it? For the companionship, sex, fear of losing the friendship? I mean moving in is not socially excepted generally speaking unless you have been together for a certain amount of time, BUT I believe ...
that it is the best indicator of whether you should be with someone or not. As soon as you feel like you "love" someone, bam... they should be in your house, maybe even before that. But keep in mind, girls are messy man... and that's one thing I could deal with but going to school 30 hours a week and coming home to a messy house when she sat at home all day, is quite discouraging.
To tell you how the story ended, my bestfriend whom I had a crush on for years starting talking again, and some feelings came back.. She could tell and her mom insisted she leave. Well... nothing happened, but to be honest I felt I got off easy, LOL. I agree with the dude above saying it is like evicting someone cause it is a whole nother deal breaking up once they move in... I was lucky man, be careful still if you are in school and need to focus.. Hard call! I would do it over again though, cause now I can't get sex off my mind.
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