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have her bring a few essentials and do a trial for 1 month minimum. if you don't want to kill her by then, you're good.
you don't know someone till you've lived with them.
Everything must be equal, chores, cleanup, cooking, finances, etc.
be explicit that it is a TRIAL and if YOU are not happy, seriously, its time to move on to someone else. Sending her away and expecting to be still cool with her is a delusion.
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