[MGuy]

My girlfriend and I have been together for almost a year now and we have had our ups and downs but for the most part we have gotten along great. Little to fight about or have an argument about. This was until recently.

We seem to fight often now, almost every day. It is almost always about meaningless things (they have some meaning to her or I at the time but when you really sit down and think they are pointless).
We live together and have for a while now.

I do my best to do what is asked and expected of me and I think she does the same for me but it just seems like we fight a lot.

She says it is her that is having issues and is causing this problem between us. I have offered my help, tired to just let her be and love her, offered advice, sat there and just listened but nothing I do seems to help her.

I have plans to marry this girl, and very soon (or ask her anyway) but I fear that she will only become worse and worse as time goes on and I am not able to help.

I feel helpless in this and would like to hear what others may thing about this.

If what you have to say is "go bang another chick" or "there are lots of other women out there", to me this is not an option. I have already given myself and my life to this girl, the ring is just a formality at this point. So please answer with educated responses if you can.

Thanks