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She does not have a day time job per-say, she is a stay at home mom (which is truly a job that lasts 24/7).
An example of a fight between us two would be as follows.
I will bring up a subject that I want to talk to her about. A concern or a feeling I have.
We begin by talking about something (eg. money, friends, ex's, sex)
At some point she may change her tone of voice to seem upset or hurt.
Then I become upset that my attempt to talk is insulting.
The topic jumps all over the place from here and we cover all kinds of unrelated things from the initial subject.
More often than not we both end up hurt. Her reaction is to pull away and make distance when hurt, mine is to bring her closer and show her that even though we had a fight, my love for her has not left, I still love her even if we can not always agree or get along.
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