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i don't know how many break-ups or relationships you have been in, but it is like a death (yes, obviously not like your father dying, but it is a like a death).
all i am saying is that clearly he is having some struggles with trying to get over this girl and i think maybe it is because he did not get closure. if it has been months and what he is doing isn't working, he needs to try something else.
everyone in his life, i am assuming, is saying, "just get over it", "just stop thinking about her", "move on", etc....clearly it ain't working.
he doesn't have to like what she is going to say...he just as to hear it.
it is like a sudden death. with sudden deaths, you never get a chance to say good-bye...to reconcile feelings, etc. At least when the death is expected, you get to say things that you have always wanted to say...to have closure. The way this break-up went down was sudden....caught him off guard....he has not reconciled yet.
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