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Originally Posted by FerrariEnzo
The first problem, you guys live together.
You guys need personal space befere having a REAL commitment. Having plans to marry so and so is not the same as ALREADY plan doing it. If you dont have a ring already on her, best really not to live together.
Second, arguments are part of a relationship, its what you do at the end. If you are are wrong, ADMIT it. IF she is wrong STILL admit your wrong but NOT in a stupid way. She will realize shes wrong and apologize after she has calm down.
Third, NEVER drag an argument for long periods of time. Admit wrong and forget it.. the longer you guys argue the MORE both of you guys will get aggressive. Both of you guys need to calm down.. either tell her to go out and do something or you do it.
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Admitting we are wrong is hard for both of us, it is something I am working on with myself.
This is good advice tho. Thank you.
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Originally Posted by Gridlock
I guess I meant this to be "constant fighting" not this to be "the relationship" and I'm getting the impression he may a little bit be there. He's questioning the ring right now because he doesn't know if he can sign up for this for life.
To me? That sounds like he can't do it anymore.
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I can do this to the day I die, and will do it if that is what it takes. I'm not going anywhere unless she wants me to.
Its tough now, but there have been far more good things than bad. This is just a point where I am stuck, I don't want to put her in a place she does not want to be.
The ring is there, the questions just has not been asked yet.....but very soon. I will not give up on this girl, she is worth fighting for every day of my life.
I'm sure some of you will think me stupid for saying such a thing, but there is so much more to this than I can share. I have been in love with her and been through so much in this life...I know she is the one I want to be with even if it is tough sometimes.