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Old 06-12-2012, 10:56 AM   #16
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also he can get back together with her or at least its possible but its not like you can bring a loved one back from the dead. Comparing a break up to death is crazy talk IMO.

You are gonig to feel like shit for a while and thats that. Being your 1st serious relationship I can understand why you want closure as this will most likely impact your future interactions with females as well as your confidence levels but seeking to know what went wrong can also be a bad thing. I have a friend who got his ex to explain what went wrong so she made a list of things she didn't like about him well he has never regain his confidence.

I think closure won't be that bad if you guys broke on good terms but given how sudden it was I think asking and wondering why will only hurt you more in the long run.

Let time go by and you will find that hell its not worth wasting your time on you only live for so long or at least thats how I felt
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