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exploration03 · 06-12-2012, 10:59 AM

Aside from telling her it's okay and consoling her verbally. What else have you tried doing so far?

Couple key notes I got from reading your every response:

1: you love her unconditionally
2: she's a stay home mom
3: youre a workaholic to promote a better lifestyle for your family
4: you tell us youll do anything but you haven't mentioned what you've done to try
5: she does not have a sufficient support group inher life

This is all recipe for what sounds to me like she's not happy. When she's not happy, instincts will lead her to consider other options. If she has, or thinks she does she'll feel guilty. Guilty leads to low self esteem and wanting additional personal space to think. If you're too busy and she has no friends or family to confide in, she'll bottle it up and lead her to be emotionally unstable.

06-12-2012, 10:59 AM	#21
exploration03 Proud to be called a RS Regular! Join Date: Nov 2011 Location: richmond Posts: 132 Thanked 60 Times in 10 Posts Failed 0 Times in 0 Posts	Aside from telling her it's okay and consoling her verbally. What else have you tried doing so far? Couple key notes I got from reading your every response: 1: you love her unconditionally 2: she's a stay home mom 3: youre a workaholic to promote a better lifestyle for your family 4: you tell us youll do anything but you haven't mentioned what you've done to try 5: she does not have a sufficient support group inher life This is all recipe for what sounds to me like she's not happy. When she's not happy, instincts will lead her to consider other options. If she has, or thinks she does she'll feel guilty. Guilty leads to low self esteem and wanting additional personal space to think. If you're too busy and she has no friends or family to confide in, she'll bottle it up and lead her to be emotionally unstable. Last edited by exploration03; 06-12-2012 at 11:17 AM.