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Originally Posted by exploration03
Couple key notes I got from reading your every response:
1: you love her unconditionally
2: she's a stay home mom
3: youre a workaholic to promote a better lifestyle for your family
4: you tell us youll do anything but you haven't mentioned what you've done to try
5: she does not have a sufficient support group inher life
This is all recipe for what sounds to me like she's not happy. When she's not happy, instincts will lead her to consider other options. If she has, or thinks she does she'll feel guilty. Guilty leads to low self esteem and wanting additional personal space to think. If you're too busy and she has no friends or family to confide in, she'll bottle it up and lead her to be emotionally unstable.
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1. Yes, I do love her unconditionally.
2. Yes, she is a stay at home mom. She does also do babysitting on 3-4 days a week.
3. I am not a workaholic by any means, but the distance we live from work and the time I work makes for a tougher time for me to be home and be part of the family during the week.
4. I covered this one in the quote of your initial reply.
5. She does not have the support that she needs. I have tried to be that for her, I never turn her away or turn down an opportunity to help with anything.
She tells me that she is happy with us, and that we are the last thing she worries about. I can do nothing but listen and accept what she has to say with regards to this. I do make time for her, every day, but she is feeling overwhelmed with herself at the moment.
Should I try and talk to her more? or give her space and let it sort out on its own?....:/