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Originally Posted by Glove
Well i respect your opinion, i also think its retarded,
Your comparing family members, which youv spent approx 30 years of life with, and will spend with the rest of your life,
Vs some chick you bang for a couple years.
She is not your blood, not your kin. She is nothing in the grand scheme of things. If his ex died tomorrow, it wouldnt matter, if his family died tomorrow, it would.
To the original issue, he needs to just man up and get some balls, realise no chick is worth this turnoil, not after only 2 years together. She is nothing, just some stranger.
If he seriously needs closure on something this insignificant, then he's got a rough life ahead of him.
Unless ofcourse he is a teenager or something, then i can understand, but if he's hit his 20's, he will know time goes fast, and were all getting older, move on.
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i agree with you Glove. MOVE the FUCK on and get your closure later down the road. I don't know if dinosaur is a girl or not but do NOT FUCKING go talking to the girl to get "feedback" or find an answer.
JUST LET IT GO. The last thing you want is "oh, i've fell for another guy" "I've cheated on you". When someone moves the fuck on says they don't love you, there is NOTHING YOU can do.
If she made a mistake and comes crawling back 2 weeks later, LET HER beg for you but move the fuck on cause you won't get over the fact she might dump you any other time.
Months / years down the road, you'll soon realize that everything will be ok. You will just accept that it's part of life. You will then get closure when you talk to her next time you talk to her. You will never get closure during these emotional days right now.