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Resist the temptation to pick up the phone and cry. Don't beg to get back together and all of a sudden start admitting your faults. You don't want to come across as a needy person and create another reason for her to pull away.
Be a man, respect the womans decision and make the best of it. Work overtime, work on your personal issues. Set goals and achieve them, in short. Keep yourself busy. You'll be surprised on how well this works out for you in the long run. Sure, the best thing to do is take ownership and admit youre wrong but do you want her back or do you want closure? there's a difference.
If you want her back and it sounds like you do, you need to buck up and show independence from her. Women are very smart, curious and observant, they will wonder how you're doing, how you took it so well and eventually maybe check in on you. When they do, let them know that you're doing well but also tell the truth that you miss certain things about her. IF, you're worried she has someone else on the side, calling her and begging is not going to change things. Matter of fact, taking my advice will probably bring out the truth. If she doesn't bother to call or check in, she probably has someone else.
One thing I always tell people that are lovesick over someone is The only way to keep a woman's heart is to break it.
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