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6 years vs 2 years is far different, thats triple the time,
also completely different circumstances, you obviously respected eachother enough to discuss what happend.
This chick walked out on this guy with no reason, why should he need closure? she was a cunt, thats closure enough for me.
Some people are compatible, some arent, you shouldnt need a chick to tell you what you did wrong, so you change who you are for the next girl,
like wtf is that?
you need to jell your hair more, you need to take out the garbage and do dishes once in a while, you need to not complain about money so much, or you need to go to the gym more, or perhaps take her out to dates more often, or what ever else they might say to you,
in the end you werent compatible, if your gonna bend over and change all that shit for the next girl, then that relationship is doomed to fail again because your a bitch and they pick up on that.
if your a couch potatoe, find a fuckin couch potatoe girl to date and enjoy it together, if your a gym jockey, find an active girl,
its not rocket science, do you really need a girl to tell you your not outgoing enough? find a girl who also isnt as outgoing, are you suddenly going to start doing the grouse grind every week because your ex said you should be more outdoorsy? forget it,
all that shit should be communicated early on in the relationship, so you guys can adjust to eachother, and find a balance and work it out, whats the point in telling the person afterwards?
hey were breaking up, but just so you know, we would still be together if you didnt have your xbox. really? couldnt have made that shit clear earlier? drop that chick off at the curb and move on.
again, millions of em out there, all shapes sizes and styles, find one thats compatible, dont need to be graded on your fuckin performance.
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