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Well, in my case I was wanting to crash out at year 3, so maybe the timelines work.
I would think there is value in a conversation as you get to: find out an answer to the question of why and you get to say "fuck you" in whatever form you want that to sound like.
If you cared about the person, its the only way to truly close it in your mind. There was nothing left undone, and nothing left unsaid.
Maybe you guys wouldn't feel like shit for a year after if you didn't try to man it out by doing everything but admitting that its not gay to gave feelings, its human.
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