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Originally Posted by Gridlock
Can we drop the "dudes don't have feelings...fuck hoes, go to gym, smooke weed" mentality for just a sec?
I wanted her to have closure.
Hell, I wanted closure.
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This is not a guy / girl mentality. In your case ,6 yrs, and BOTH of you wanted closure; ready to talk so that's not a problem. IF one side ain't ready to give or even UNDERSTAND what CLOSURE means, the OP, in your case), don't go chasing after closure. It might not even happen everrr until you bump into her later in life. * TONS of examples but that's another story.
In Gridlock's case, yes, both sides are mature able to talk it out, it hit home, bam, closure. But damn, there are so many times when people dump the bf/ gf cause they are out of love (which is fine). One side BEGS AND BEGS trying to closure but doesn't work. Not until like 3 booty calls, multiple gf/bfs later, pregnant with a kid and their fiancée cheated and then they realize.. oh, i was such retard back then...