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Originally Posted by miss_crayon
As a girl, I WOULD NOT ask for feedback. My mom has told me the first time I got dumped and it stuck ever since. NEVER ask why it ended for "closure."
1) "Oh it was me, not you.." "I'm not ready" etc etc. Whatever the reasoning is..you will never be satisfied. Example: If it's the "I'm not ready" excuse..you'll think to yourself..I'll give her time when really..she doesn't need anymore time. Maybe just more time to think how she's going to get rid of you from calling her. Overanalyzing the reasons she gives on why it didn't work will only turn you towards a further downward spiral than you already are in
2) Give yourself the respect that this girl just broke your heart and she doesn't deserve a 2nd/3rd etc chance to DUMP YOU ALL OVER AGAIN!!!
3) A person doesn't just break up with you in one day. Sorry to say, but she broke up with you a long time ago and just didn't know how or have the courage to do it to you sooner.
Not to sound harsh or anything, but the truth is...the relationship is done. Someone who values you as a partner isn't going to just throw away 2 years of a relationship for nothing.
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Crayon, thank you so much for writing this post.