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I can understand. I've been there.
It's even worse if it's your first serious relationship.
This comment would be to everyone on here:
We all take things differently. Especially dependant on how much we have invested emotionally, monetarily, and physically.
The more we invest out of ourselves, the less we leave FOR ourselves.
At the end of the day, who's not there to expect a result/outcome after investment?
And in the OP's case, he invested, seemingly a lot. And he lost.
OP: I know everyone's got their way to get over someone. But YOU know what you need to help you out. Whether or not you want to recognize it and do it is another story.
Take the time you need. If you need to cry, whine, bitch, moan, groan, scream, yell or simply punch something, do it. As long as it doesn't hurt anyone.
There's not RIGHT way to get over someone. Just A WAY.
I commend you for staying off the alcohol, though.
One thing I CAN say for someone enduring a time of grievance, be it an S/O or FAMILY:
Anger.
Sometimes anger is needed to give focus. To channel it and use it to turn things around.
She dumped you. She probably thought about it alot and never bother addressing it. She hurt you. Be angry. It's ok. You have that right.
And don't be afraid to use it.
The important thing is: use it right.
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