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Originally Posted by Noir
Yah but that may be because in his mind, people like his girlfriend, or his mom, he has a certain "control" over them so that any actions they make that he disagrees with, he thinks he has the authority to be domineering against such parties; which lends the explanation why he may be different to others such as you, or your group of friends.
And just because he can be super pissed in a short amount of time doesn't necessarily mean he has a mental disorder. He probably just has a low patience threshold against people who doesn't have respect for. But then again, I'm personally against science that seems to want to put a label on everything and absolve people from their own flaws and responsibility.
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Originally Posted by PJ
Do it. Worst case scenario, you stop being friends. Someone like that is only going to drag you down in the long run anyway.
I would have to think that the latter is closer to the truth as well. He sounds like a selfish baby who expects everything to be entitled to him. Too many people I know all blame their douchebag-ness on bi-polarity. You're not fucking bi-polar. Just cause you're an egotistical asshole doesn't mean you can use a mental disorder as an excuse. GOD.
/end half-rant
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Yeah, he did something yesterday that caused a scene in public and got kicked out by security where he was. I haven't talked to him yet, doing it tomorrow.
His girlfriend knows he's an ass, and she feels like shit being with him but she loovess him so much. she said she can't stand being without him (and she's not low on self esteem on anything, she knows if she leaves him there will be a line up of guys waiting for her) but she's just so in love with him so they aren't going to break up (unless he ends it, which i don't think he's gonna). SO.. i'm going to try my best to change him.. he may be an asshole but I"m just gonna pretend I think it's a bipolar thing when I talk to him so I don't offend him, and so he'll take it better and consider changing :P
thanks for the replies