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Originally Posted by chickenugget69
Yeah, he did something yesterday that caused a scene in public and got kicked out by security where he was. I haven't talked to him yet, doing it tomorrow.
His girlfriend knows he's an ass, and she feels like shit being with him but she loovess him so much. she said she can't stand being without him (and she's not low on self esteem on anything, she knows if she leaves him there will be a line up of guys waiting for her) but she's just so in love with him so they aren't going to break up (unless he ends it, which i don't think he's gonna). SO.. i'm going to try my best to change him.. he may be an asshole but I"m just gonna pretend I think it's a bipolar thing when I talk to him so I don't offend him, and so he'll take it better and consider changing :P
thanks for the replies
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Nope. Definitely not a bi-polar thing.
[Bolded] That right there is the reason why he's an ass, and a big one at that too. It's because he's in a situation where he can do anything he wants and get away with it. Probably also a similar situation with his mother.
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is also the reason why he doesn't treat you, or your friends the same. Because he knows he can't get away with it with you guys. Where if he treated you guys like trash, you'd probably leave him friendless. Who knows, if he went far enough, one of you guys might've given him a good decking or two the face.
It's seriously probably why. And if I'm right, I really really really don't feel bad for the girlfriend at all. This lifestyle was her choice, her decision. As for your original concern that you felt bad for her, and how she was being treated... I would totally forget about that completely.
If a chick wants to subject herself to that treatment for whatever benefits she gets out of it... that's her deal.