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I wonder if you should be taking advice from people who you don't know, and most likely, have never been in your situation. A lot of these guys are losers, and tend to expect the worst in any case (i.e., girl is unhappy so she'll definitely leave you or whatever).
I am a married man, and have lived with my girl for a few years. Sometimes, esp. if the girl isn't working (mine hasn't been) she gets bored, boredom turns into anxiety/stress/loss of self-esteem, etc., and unfortunately, you can't do anything about this on your own. You can, however, insist she modify her life to make it more fulfilling. You might be the best partner in the world, but if she's unhappy with other shit it will eventually seep into your relationship.
Don't always try to solve her problems -- suggest she join a club with other moms, get a job, take some classes, start a food blog, or whatever floats her boat. Once she gets her mojo back she'll appreciate you more than ever.
Plus, you should demand more blowjobs so she knows you value her blowjobbing.
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