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Gridlock · 07-02-2012, 10:34 AM

You don't really plan on a long-term relationship. You can only state that you are interested in long-term, meaning, you have come to terms with the ideals of commitment and wanting to get to that next level with someone. That relationship becomes long-term through action on both sides.

You kind of made it sound like "I am now initiating a long-term relationship". You don't. You initiate A relationship and it either goes, or it doesn't.

I do think you need to work on trust, because if you are constantly thinking she's out ho-ing around, then sooner or later, she will. I don't say that because women are powerless to the cock, I say it because you will drive her nuts with your insecurities and she'll bail.

How do you know your gf isn't out messing around with guys? You don't. YOu have trust in the strength of a relationship that you are both committed to each other.

But, I'm going to caution you-don't get wrapped up in this shit too soon. Generations have changed, and married at 19 doesn't happen any more. I was like 21 and I was living with my girlfriend and I felt fucking trapped. If I could do it again, I would have stayed living in my tiny ass bachelor apartment and lived my own life.

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Gridlock Banned By Establishment Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: New West Posts: 3,997 Thanked 2,982 Times in 1,135 Posts Failed 284 Times in 109 Posts	You don't really plan on a long-term relationship. You can only state that you are interested in long-term, meaning, you have come to terms with the ideals of commitment and wanting to get to that next level with someone. That relationship becomes long-term through action on both sides. You kind of made it sound like "I am now initiating a long-term relationship". You don't. You initiate A relationship and it either goes, or it doesn't. I do think you need to work on trust, because if you are constantly thinking she's out ho-ing around, then sooner or later, she will. I don't say that because women are powerless to the cock, I say it because you will drive her nuts with your insecurities and she'll bail. How do you know your gf isn't out messing around with guys? You don't. YOu have trust in the strength of a relationship that you are both committed to each other. But, I'm going to caution you-don't get wrapped up in this shit too soon. Generations have changed, and married at 19 doesn't happen any more. I was like 21 and I was living with my girlfriend and I felt fucking trapped. If I could do it again, I would have stayed living in my tiny ass bachelor apartment and lived my own life.