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This is coming from my experience: The advantage of men is usually they have trust. I also have my first girlfriend at the age of 21. There are a couple times where my girlfriend has done things to lose my trust in her, but there is also what results of it, which makes the difference. We worked things out and hopefully it will be for the better. I don't trust her at all most of the times but showing it expressively and being concerned is a huge difference
If shes out with guys, then knowing who they are and asking nicely in an understanding manner is most beneficial. Then you would know but don't keep it on your mind all day long because it will distract you. Basically sometimes, especially younger, the girl should be the one that is more insecure because that allows the guy to know the game is still on and we as guys are winning. Of course, as you progress then the trust levels out or when you're older its a different matter. My suggestion is don't worry about it too much, what needs to happen must happen. If it's for the worse then just learn from this experience and get to know someone before getting into a relationship.
Relationships takes committment and the acceptance of what your significant other is for what they are, not what you want them to be.
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