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yray · 07-04-2012, 11:54 AM

Op, just let it go. Chinese girls are really attached to their mothers, in a way, it's like dating their mother through a proxy. If their mother says no, it's pretty much 100% no unless she decides to revolt.

Parents will always try to think of the future. Imagine what will you do when you go to China or her coming to Canada. Will you both be able to find a place to live, friends, jobs? My ex and I were in the same position; for a lack of a better term, she was too fob to work in Canada even with a double masters and I refused to move to the mainland because I can't find a job there for sure (well I could go to HK but she doesn't want to), and eventually we buckled under the stress of figuring out the future and just broke up.

Just take the plane ticket and go on vacation. You might meet people as you go around.

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yray RS has made me the bitter person i am today! Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: PENIS Posts: 4,824 Thanked 4,699 Times in 1,546 Posts Failed 300 Times in 128 Posts	Op, just let it go. Chinese girls are really attached to their mothers, in a way, it's like dating their mother through a proxy. If their mother says no, it's pretty much 100% no unless she decides to revolt. Parents will always try to think of the future. Imagine what will you do when you go to China or her coming to Canada. Will you both be able to find a place to live, friends, jobs? My ex and I were in the same position; for a lack of a better term, she was too fob to work in Canada even with a double masters and I refused to move to the mainland because I can't find a job there for sure (well I could go to HK but she doesn't want to), and eventually we buckled under the stress of figuring out the future and just broke up. Just take the plane ticket and go on vacation. You might meet people as you go around. Last edited by yray; 07-05-2012 at 01:34 AM.