[El Bastardo]

The following is a reply from the anonymous member

Sorry for the delayed response.

We ended up talking about the whole situation last night. Like I mentioned earlier, I didn't want to get into the details of exactly what she did. She isn't disrespecting me. It's just a personal thing that we have discussed many times.

So I started off the conversation by apologizing for my actions. No matter what the problem is, I agree that I should have not yelled at her in front of my friends. That was just inappropriate. Though, I did make it clear that even though my actions were not appropriate, I couldn't guarantee it wouldn't happen again if she did the same thing again. If the problem happens again, I hope I can show some restraint and discuss the matter in a more appropriate environment. I want to be realistic though, I know it is possible I might have another outburst, but I hope I can contain myself if it does happen again.

I also asked her if no one was around would it be appropriate if I yelled at her the exact same way. She said that if there was no one around then yes my actions would have been justified. So I guess that means I am right and she is wrong?

The only thing that got me annoyed was that during the entire discussion she didn't even acknowledge what she did or take responsibility for it. Again, I had to bring up the problem and pretty much spell it out for her. Then she acknowledged the problem again and once again said she would try to fix the issue.
I actually thought she was just pretending to acknowledge the problem this whole time so I asked her about it. And she says that she is not pretending and she actually thinks there is a problem and she needs to work on fixing it. So who knows what's going to happen.

Anyway, thanks for the replies.