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I'll add another thing:
Being single is the best time for personal growth. You can watch choices you make play out over the months as they go by, and see how they cause your friendships and social circles to drift.
Being single is like fertilizer for your dreams. Don't fap and watch your drive and ambition soar. I managed to get my first novel done, I would never have accomplished that in a relationship. What do you want to accomplish? Work on that when you're single and women will find you.
Now I'm poised to release the book, I'm back at my regular porn business that I had stopped working on the last year, and I'm excited to be able to again choose what type of woman will fit into my life. I spent the last two years or so just banging girls that I met casually, but none of those women were very high status. Soon I will be ready to accept a higher status, smoking hot woman coming into my circle of friends. Relationships aren't just 1 on 1, if you're dating a girl, your entire network of friends, family, and associates do factor in to the health of your relationship(s).
Before I was knocking back poon on Clubvibes, I remember being a bit of a beta and having to online date for the scraps left over by elite level alphas. That sucked.
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