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Old 07-12-2012, 02:40 PM   #2
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Wanna have a threesome?
 
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The answer to that question depends entirely on the specific sexual act in question; I'd like to take a momentary step back from discussing specifics and give my thoughts on the topic as a whole, the exploration of your individual sexual interests.

Society imposes definite boundaries on the realm of sexuality. Of the nearly infinite array of possible sexual acts, but a few dozen are accepted by society. People have been taught to fixate on numbers of partners, who it is okay to have sexual relations with, what types of acts are okay and so on. The boundaries of acceptability have steadily grown, but are still very constrictive. I would suggest that those boundaries are not of importance and that there is no need to acknowledge them, instead, people should simply do what feels good for them as long as the act does not violate the most basic moral principles in the process.

If a person has had more than the average number of partners they are branded as a slut, a whore, or some other derogatory term, especially females. The low acceptable number of partners is nothing more than a subjective and randomly assigned number. If a person has made poor choices in their sexual life, that will reflect in their sexual health and they will undergo suffering as a result. Otherwise, sex is a good, enjoyable activity, and the number of partners a person has had is of no importance - just like there are no numerical restrictions on how often anyone should partake in any other good, enjoyable activity.

The quintessential male fantasy is a threesome with two women, and should a male achieve that sexual milestone, he will be the recipient of great praise by friends. Although a threesome with two women is not necessarily the simplest sexual achievement, it's also not all that difficult. The reason for is quite simple: society is very accepting overall of female sexual experimentation even when it includes subtle same sex scenarios. I'm not saying sexual experimentation as in two girls going down on one another; I'm speaking in much more general terms. It is socially acceptable for women to be in close proximity to one another during a sexual act, during a FMF threesome for example, or to give another example, it is socially acceptable for women to discuss fondling each others boobies. Men are not privilege to that same open mindedness, and it does inhibit many men. Like before, I'm not speaking in terms of outright same sex activities, because that's a whole separate discussion. I'm talking about activities like pegging (female with a strap on), MFM threesomes, and the classic prostate stimulation while receiving oral. None of those activities are gay, but they aren't necessarily socially acceptable because of the very subtle same sex under tones. So, what point am I trying to make? Social stigmas inhibit men, but they shouldn't, because they're groundless. If a male wants to experiment with a MFM threesome (which lots of girls fantasize about), prostate stimulation or anything else, they should pursue it without concern.

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