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ApexSeal · 07-15-2012, 12:20 PM

I've been hanging out with this girl for the last few weeks and we've gotten pretty close. We get into really good deep conversations that, for whatever reason, doesn't seem possible with most of my other friends. She's fairly accomplished, well into her career, keeps up with me intellectually (my ex couldn't and it was frustrating), has a rather cute voice and personality, and is a pretty upbeat positive person. I'm starting to like her and I should probably ask her out soon if I'm ever going to.

Only issue is that I don't particularly find her attractive, physically. Definitely my ex was better looking, and that's a little troubling for me. Almost feels like it would be a downgrade if we got together (this makes me an asshole, yes?). I could get past this for now because everything else about her is pretty awesome, but can anyone think of any potential future issues that might come up because of this?

07-15-2012, 12:20 PM	#1
ApexSeal NEWBIE ACCOUNT! Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: y Posts: 22 Thanked 7 Times in 2 Posts Failed 0 Times in 0 Posts	Relationship with someone you're not attracted to physically? I've been hanging out with this girl for the last few weeks and we've gotten pretty close. We get into really good deep conversations that, for whatever reason, doesn't seem possible with most of my other friends. She's fairly accomplished, well into her career, keeps up with me intellectually (my ex couldn't and it was frustrating), has a rather cute voice and personality, and is a pretty upbeat positive person. I'm starting to like her and I should probably ask her out soon if I'm ever going to. Only issue is that I don't particularly find her attractive, physically. Definitely my ex was better looking, and that's a little troubling for me. Almost feels like it would be a downgrade if we got together (this makes me an asshole, yes?). I could get past this for now because everything else about her is pretty awesome, but can anyone think of any potential future issues that might come up because of this?