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Well, i dont think you are an asshole so much as trying to figure out what matters most to you.
This is a cliche...corny...and lame....but it really is true what 'they' say...its what is in the inside that matters.
You may be getting lust and love (or 'like' in this case) mixed up....dude are taught from a young age that hotness counts (women too). How big her tits are....how tight the ass is...how small the waist is...plump lips....long legs...etc. Chicks are the same: ass, muscles, hairs, eyes, teeth, height, etc.
Look around....the vast majority of people are not that good looking. at all.
As you get older and start to look for "the one", you look for "the package". This person may not be a head turner...may not have legs for miles or the perkiest tits...but as a whole (personality, smarts, humour, some physical characteristics) may be the ticket to a long term happy relationship for you.
Maybe you should try not to think about it as much (easy to say, hard to do). Go with the flow...stop analyzing her angles, staring at her fb pics, worrying about what other may think, thinking about dating up or down, etc.
If you date...the more you like her or fall for her...the attractive you will find her, I guarantee it.
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