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Originally Posted by El Bastardo
The following is a question from an anonymous Revscene member
I had sex with my gf recently and it was pretty much our first time. Other times it has been, let's say unsucessful due to anxiety issues I have and getting soft. However this time, we got into the heat of the moment and had safe sex. After that, my gf said she had an upset stomach and most specifically it feels like it's bloated. I researched online that it is because her cervix was swollen due to her not being accustommed to my size. I have an average size one and I went quite deep this time because of the moment we were in and I felt more pleasureful in doing so. Any thoughts and experiences?
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The cervix can be a nasty bitch when provoked. It looks like a little donut at the top of the top of the vagina and is VERY sensitive (ask any female that has yearly physicals). Some times during deep penetration and in certain positions the tip of the penis can 'bonk' it. If can feel like a deep aching internal pain or a sharp stabbing pain. It isn't unbearable, but it isn't exactly pleasing (unless you are into a little pain during sex).
From what I understand, depending on where a female is in her cycle, the cervix can be more or less sensitive and can be a little swollen. You can not hurt the cervix, per se, but she may be a little sore for a few mins/hours/days. Also, unless you have VERY long penis (Ron Jeremy style) your penis will not enter the cervix....and even then, it is unlikely.
Her feeling nauseous, could have just been from all the adrenaline and movement during sex. Twisting, turning, changing positions, rocking bed, heavy breathing, etc. can all bring on a slight upset stomach.
The bloating could be the result of her vagina swelling and her either coming close or having an orgasm. Before and during and orgasm, female genitalia swells due to an increase blood flow to the area. She may feel a little throbbing as well. Think about it....when you are done having sex (especially without a condom) you penis is usually red, swollen, and can throb a little....its the same for a vagina.
It is nothing to be concerned about and the more she has sex, the more use to the feeling she will get
Also, congrats on having a great 'first' time and being safe
Happy fucking!