[El Bastardo]

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I love sex (lol biggest understatement for everyone here I'm sure, myself included.) I would ideally like to have it at least twice every day I spend time with my boyfriend over at his place. If this quota isn't reached, I feel insanely grouchy, frustrated and unable to partake in cute banter with the boyfriend because I feel like either throttling him or lighting his house on fire. My boyfriend has no problem initiating. The problem is that I do, which is what leads to the lack of sex. My boyfriend doesn't want to feel like he has to initiate all the time and sometimes he's unaware that I even want to get it on because of the absolute passiveness in my part. I just sit there and stew and bitch inwardly about how horny I am but never do anything about it.

The thing is.. I don't really know how to initiate lol. I'm so used to the idea of men being pursuers in dating and in sex, that it feels unnatural and awkward for me to start up sexy times. Plus I have this image in my head of sultry sirens from tv and porn that I have to live up to. Imagining myself being absolute fail at seduction prevents me from trying. /pussy



Women of Revscene: Can you provide me tips on how to just get over it and ways to start sex playfully, assertively?

Men of Revscene: How have women (exes, present gfs, etc.) made it known to you that they want to get their freak on and what were your favourite ways?