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Originally Posted by Ulic Qel-Droma
-"looks fade, people get old" yes, that is true. but in my mind, you will always be the beautiful girl i first met. once beautiful, always beautiful. your beauty is immortalized forever in my mind. When i look into your eyes, or think of you, i see the girl i fell in love with.
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This x1,000,000,000,000,000,000!!!!
This is very very very true. It's been 3 years since I've been married and I don't at the moment know if she has changed some or not, but I still physically view her as the girl I met 4 - 5 yrs ago. So I'm personally vouching for every word in Ulic's statement I quoted above.
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Originally Posted by Ulic Qel-Droma
-yes, i've met girls that i've half or almost fallen for that arent quite up to par with my beauty standards. they had awesome personalities. but guess what. i'm glad i didnt accept them. cuz you know what, looks are rarer than personality.
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This is a great point, and to take it further:
One has to be cautious when one is judging another by personality alone, or if the person being judged "only" has personality going for them. Why? Because people (or couples-to-be) are usually in their best behaviour/personality on the initial stages of their meeting (or at least a few months into the relationship). In most cases, the personality you usually meet, isn't the personality you
may end up getting later on down the road well into the relationship; and when both parties are comfortable and lax with each other.
This is also why I laugh everytime I see a guy resort to the "White Knight" technique in courting a partner.