sorry OP somewhat going on a tangent here:
dammit all this talk about getting her to initiate is getting me horny.... i'll admit i'm the hornier one in the relationship and i'm always initiating but sometimes it isnt enough (once or twice /week)...maybe i'm a sex addict (to some extent) now all these talk of putting it in the mouth and shit won't work when the roles are reversed. (of course she likes it (going down on her) it's the getting into the pants and getting her in the right frame of mind for it : the intitiation part i'm asking about)
since we're talking about initiating sex (or making love

)
what's the best way for your bf (or to the guys whats your best move) to initiate and guarantee some action?
and yes this is a serious post this thread has got me all horned out like reading the playboy letters page.