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i would actually think both working in the same place is better then if you worked diff places lol cus think of it this way, if you both had diff work places : she has her boss, you have yours, she has her responsibilities, you have yours, she has her co-workers, you have yours, she has her friends, you have yours , then you meet and change into comfy clothes and fight LOL (well this may i apply more for married couple in my opinion..so maybe not to you)

but i get what you mean OP, sometimes i feel the same way with my gf, but with my gf she says i just have to let her know in advance im doing something with my guy friends and she'll be "semi" ok with it i guess haha rather then if i tell her "oh im going out with the guys tonight " she'll get choked cus she think ill be with her tonight until i told her. Which kinda sucks =/ good luck!