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Gridlock · 08-01-2012, 10:02 AM

I'm going to put this out there, for all to learn from.

In caps.

Bold.

Maybe italics.

THE ONLY PERSON WHO CARES ABOUT YOUR 'WHATEVER' ISSUE(CHUBBY, SHORT, CURLY HAIR, MISSING A TOE) IS YOU!

I went with italics.

You can wear your 'jelly belly' like a shield, hiding behind it or you can just be you. If she doesn't want to go out with you because you aren't her thing(she likes athletic guys) then: her loss. Move the fuck on.

If you are going to sit there and mope about it for 3 months, and let it get into your head, then that's YOUR issue, not hers.

Yeah, there are women that have to have a guy that makes a certain amount of money, or look a certain way, or drive a certain level of car. You know what we end up calling these women? Bitches. You know who ends up with them? Douchebags. You know what happens to their relationships? Chaos.

You know what happens when we meet a woman and she isn't interested because you don't meet some criteria in her head? We thank them for making it easy to spot them.

Now...flip side. You know what women can sniff out in a guy a mile away? Lack of confidence. So if you are hiding behind some issue that YOU created(in your case, your belly) and are meek and shy because of it and approach a woman staring at the floor saying, "i...umm...would...if you are interested, maybe...um...only if you want to and its TOTALLY ok if you...um don't...." that's not having a 'lack of game' that's being a moron, and THAT is the reason she says no.

I would, the next time you are hanging out, sit next to her and simply say, "we've hung out a few times, and I have a lot of fun. I was wondering if you would be interested in just the two of us going out. Soon" You aren't interested in your friend, so why let her cock block you. The girl says yes or no. If she says no, then deflect with something so obviously stupid to make it funny.

Sample dialogue:

You: ask. Point blank. And look her in the eyes.
She: says no. She'll deflect with a bs reason...the freindship, awkward with the mutual friend...whatever.
You: Cool. So how about the olympics hey! That's some real running and jumping out there.

Done. One women out of 50 that you'll interact with. 49 to go.

08-01-2012, 10:02 AM	#9
Gridlock Banned By Establishment Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: New West Posts: 3,997 Thanked 2,982 Times in 1,135 Posts Failed 284 Times in 109 Posts	I'm going to put this out there, for all to learn from. In caps. Bold. Maybe italics. *THE ONLY PERSON WHO CARES ABOUT YOUR 'WHATEVER' ISSUE(CHUBBY, SHORT, CURLY HAIR, MISSING A TOE) IS YOU!* I went with italics. You can wear your 'jelly belly' like a shield, hiding behind it or you can just be you. If she doesn't want to go out with you because you aren't her thing(she likes athletic guys) then: her loss. Move the fuck on. If you are going to sit there and mope about it for 3 months, and let it get into your head, then that's YOUR issue, not hers. Yeah, there are women that have to have a guy that makes a certain amount of money, or look a certain way, or drive a certain level of car. You know what we end up calling these women? Bitches. You know who ends up with them? Douchebags. You know what happens to their relationships? Chaos. You know what happens when we meet a woman and she isn't interested because you don't meet some criteria in her head? We thank them for making it easy to spot them. Now...flip side. You know what women can sniff out in a guy a mile away? Lack of confidence. So if you are hiding behind some issue that YOU created(in your case, your belly) and are meek and shy because of it and approach a woman staring at the floor saying, "i...umm...would...if you are interested, maybe...um...only if you want to and its TOTALLY ok if you...um don't...." that's not having a 'lack of game' that's being a moron, and THAT is the reason she says no. I would, the next time you are hanging out, sit next to her and simply say, "we've hung out a few times, and I have a lot of fun. I was wondering if you would be interested in just the two of us going out. Soon" You aren't interested in your friend, so why let her cock block you. The girl says yes or no. If she says no, then deflect with something so obviously stupid to make it funny. Sample dialogue: You: ask. Point blank. And look her in the eyes. She: says no. She'll deflect with a bs reason...the freindship, awkward with the mutual friend...whatever. You: Cool. So how about the olympics hey! That's some real running and jumping out there. Done. One women out of 50 that you'll interact with. 49 to go.