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Originally Posted by Ulic Qel-Droma
uh maybe you should identify why the man is seeing another woman.
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There is this - true, he may be a selfish prick... on the other hand, maybe she's a selfish bitch who doesn't bother to show him any interest. I'm not just talking about whether she puts out, either - she wants him to be a part of the family, but does she TREAT him like part of the family? Does he have any say (assuming HE has any interest) in how the kids are brought up? In household decisions? Assuming he actually WANTS to be involved in this family... is she ALLOWING him to be? Or does she just treat him like an ATM?
I've seen this happen - trust me, not all "family guys" are just interested in whether the mother of their kids continues to spread her legs for him.
Not that this is an "excuse" either, and I know that it will be hard for OP to admit that his sister may actually have faults and be partly to blame for the situation as well...
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Originally Posted by freakshow
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i work all day, come home and all she has to do is take care of the kids, the place is a FUCKING mess, on her spare time from the kids all she does is watch her fucking soap operas on her ipad, even at night in bed, all i ask is place is neat and tidy when i get home."
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oh yeah, cause that's basically a brainless job..  |
Not sure whether to fail Ulic's post or not... I get the idea it's meant tongue-in-cheek, however... a lot of guys think this way. I've done the Mr. Mom thing, staying home with the kid while she works. It's NOT an easy thing. Keeping the house up can be pretty much a full-time job in itself, especially if the SO is a slob.
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Originally Posted by Ulic Qel-Droma
lol, i'd fuckin cheat if my wife wasn't being the same woman i married.
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There's an old saying... "Men get married hoping she won't change... women get married hoping he WILL."