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This girl is bad news. I don't think she's cheating on you ..yet. She even gave you a heads up, and said she likes talking to new guys becauses she's bored, and its exciting. Well guess what.. Those are the exact same reason a woman cheats, especially after being married.
I get the impression she is a cheating time bomb. If start talking to women with the intention of making her jealous, that will backfire. When push comes to shove, she knows your weakness (jealousy) and she will kick you in the balls with it.
She obviuosly doesn't respect you as a bf, as she's doing things which she knows bother you.
There isn't a clear cut way to handle her. I would focus on yourself. Workout. Make new friends (females - but don't tell her. She obvs has no problem not telling you).
Also, learn to distance yourself, for when and if that day comes, you can brush her off your shoulders and move on.
She also sounds like a spoiled girl that craves attention. If you ignore her on purpose, and to 'teach her a lesson', this will also backfire. She doesn't respect you, and pretty much has you wrapped around her pinky.
Picking a girl up, making her dinner, giving her the world, nothing wrong with that. IF the girl deserves it.
If I were in your shoes, I'd man up, and start working on a plan B.
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